This blog will be the first in a series from my wonderful trip to
Montana to chase my first mule deer. Did I succeed? Well, you will
just have to visit the blog several times in order to figure that out.
That trip taught me so much about life, being a man, and serving a
loving God. As a man, husband, and father, I have a responsibility to
live my God-given days in a way that matters. I heard someone make a
statement that I cannot remember exactly; however, here is my best
paraphrase -- you only get one life; however, if its well-lived, then
you do not need another. I appreciate that comment because it makes us
focus on the things that really and truly matter. What are those
things? Your wife. Your family. Your testimony about God. The things
that do not matter, unfortunately, are the ones where we spend most of
our time and energy. This trip made me do some thinking.
One place that we went to look for mule deer -- since I do not want to
reveal the name of this location and expose my friend's great spot, the
name will be changed and may or may not bear any resemblance to the
actual location -- was called Risky Ridge. This place involved many
climbs, draws, descents, and, as the picture below reveals, snow.
I have always wanted to hunt in the snow, and this trip gave me the
chance to cross that off my list. Now, from what I have been told, this
snow was not "normal Montana" snow that is powdery. It was, instead,
wet and crunchy which created its own issues with hunting. Yet, it was
that very snow that made me do some thinking....
The second day that we were on Risky Ridge, I found a boot print of mine
from the day before. I paused and took this picture below.
That icy footprint was a legacy that I left on that ridge the day
before. As a man, husband, and father, I leave a legacy EVERY day with
my family and so do you. The question that you must ask is this -- am I
putting the right imprint on my family, friends, and coworkers every
day? Every choice and every decision that you make leaves a clearly
defined imprint.
That factor was further explored in my Scripture reading as I was flying
back to the East Coast. I was reading the last words of David and
found this prayer in 1 Chronicles 29:19 -- "give my son Solomon a
loyal heart to keep Your commandments and Your testimonies and Your
statutes." He wanted his son to have a legacy of devotion to God, and
that is exactly the same for me. Thus, I have to modify my lifestyle to
ensure they see my commitment to Him. My actions - not my words - are
what they watch and how they learn.
This hunting trip, literally, brought new meaning to the phrase "watch
your step." Be intentional in your steps and leave the legacy that
you certainly want. Is that what you are doing right now?